"I don’t want to make anyone else feel bad, so I’ll just do anything they say."
The expectation that it's normal to focus excessively on the wants or feelings of others at the expense of one's own wants or feelings, in order to gain love or acceptance.
Acts in a passive-aggressive or rebellious manner.
Avoids relationships altogether; Avoids situations in which their wishes are different from those of others.
Chooses dominant, controlling partners; Complies with their wishes.
If I do what I want, I'm asking for trouble.
I get back at people in little ways instead of showing my anger.
I'm basically allergic to confrontation and will do whatever I can to avoid it.